Trip Report

We left early yesterday morning for the trip to Harrison Hot Springs. I was pleasantly surprised at the ease with which we crossed the border in both directions, so that made the journey north better than expected.

The weather was wonderful, I'm guessing it must have been in the middle 80's, and the scenery around Harrison Lake is spectacular. It reminds me of my own home, a tiny valley surrounded by mountains on all sides.

We arrived right about lunch time, and were treated to a scrumptious feast. Steak and salmon, fine wines, and an amazing chocolate desert.

After lunch we viewed the entry's in this years sand castle world championships, they were truly amazing structures built with nothing but sand and water. It seems to be a worldwide event as I noticed many entrants from not only all over North America, but from Asia and Europe as well. I can highly recommend viewing these creations as a great way to spend a September day.

We ended our time in Harrison with a little shopping, and some ice cream.

One of the best parts of the trip though was the discussion while we drove. We talked a great deal about Maria of Maria's Diary.

Maria is a truly remarkable woman, someone whom I find fascinating. While I don't share all of her enjoyments, I've greatly enjoyed reading her descriptions of them all. Whether she is punishing her husband, using a butt plug on herself, or talking with her mother in law, she embraces the symbolism of female domination and reading her exploits of it is great fun. My only regret is that I have only one diary entry left to read. I've been holding it for a little while because I don't want to finish!

One very special thing about Maria is that no matter what activity she is engaging in, she never looses her dominant nature.

While I disagree with her on this, Maria feels that it increases her husband's humiliation if she not only fucks her lover, but if she "submits" to him as well. Personally I don't think that dominant women who cuckold their husbands should be submissive to their outside lovers, I think that their lovers should be submissive as well. These thoughts are beside the point though, so let me get back to Maria.

To further her husbands humiliation Maria created a scenario whereby her lover would spend the week with her in her house and dominate her while her husband was away on business. She would create video of all their sexual and bdsm encounters so that her husband could be forced to watch them on his return home.

During this week Maria embraces her "submission" with the same gusto as she embraces her dominance. She dresses like a whore for going out on the town, she has her cunt and asshole invaded by dildo's and various objects found around the house, she is placed in wickedly uncomfortable bondage, she is fucked raw, she deepthroats her lovers cock, and she swallows all the cum he deposits into the funnel attached to her mouth. She even cums while being whipped, and begs for the scenarios to get harder and harder.

What is so interesting to me though is that through all of this Maria never looses her dominance. She "submits" to her lover, but that "submission" is simply a facade covering her dominance. A way in which she can, in her view, humiliate her husband even further.

Following an evening when she accompanied her lover to a pub wearing very little and showing off her body for his friends, as they are driving back to her house he makes a comment about fucking her when they get back. Something they have been doing all week, and what their relationship is focused on. Instead of her continued "submission" she refuses. Her own words say it best:

"'No you're not,' I told him. 'There's a lot I want to do tomorrow, and remember, your going to be spraying my face. I need that video. I'm not going to risk you having an accident while you screw me.'"

"'Aw, come on, no way,' he said. 'You know I've got to have you.'"

"'You come without my permission, Matt, and you're going straight home.'"

"I didn't even blink when I said it. It just rolled right off the tongue. It should have been a tense moment between us, a moment of challenge where Matt would seek to establish his authority. But instead he didn't reply. He just sat there and took it."

".......without my permission.....you're going straight home......"

"Maybe it hadn't registered with him, but it sure as heck registered with me. But I wasn't entirely surprised. Deep down I had a very close handle on our relationship. I am what I am, and I know my power. I don't think that will ever change now."

"Matt used dildos on me when we got home, and I felt no guilt whatsoever in enjoying two thrilling orgasms while Matt was denied even a single one."

To truly understand the great sense of dominance that is embraced by Maria we must remember that in this situation, with Matt, she is the "slave" he is her "master." As I've said, a remarkable woman with an amazing diary.

I mentioned above that discussing Maria and her diary was one of the highlights of the trip, what was the best part of the trip? It was free! Mistress does love perks. A business I regularly deal with takes it's best customers on one of these day trips every year. A great perk, and a great way to build customer loyalty.